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攻击性认同是一种保护？——以分析第三方视角探寻来访者自我成长的个案报告

Is Aggressive Identification a Form of Protection? —A Case Report on Helping Visitor Achieve Self-Growth from the Perspective of Analytic Third

Theory and Practice of Psychological Counseling / 2024,6(7): 379-386 / 2024-07-31 245 475

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• Authors: 于巧芳     
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  南京林业大学学生心理健康教育指导中心，南京

• Keywords: 分析第三方；咨询关系；自我成长
• The analytic third; Counseling relationship; Self-growth
• Abstract: 来访者长期受困于家庭关系，当遭遇现实问题或冲突时，其惯常选择攻击性认同，即通过压抑自身需求来保护弱小的自我，导致出现焦虑、抑郁等情绪，最终影响到了日常生活和人际交流。咨询师主要运用主体间性精神分析，从“第三方”的视角处理来访者的心理诉求。基于倾听、同理、支持等咨询过程中建立的良好“同盟”关系的背景，咨询师聚焦咨询双方之间的互动，关注来访者的身体反应和情绪变化，引导来访者觉察、凝聚自身力量，倾听自己内心的声音，最终达成缓解焦虑抑郁情绪，“发育”自我的目标。
• The visitor has long been ensnared in family relationships. When faced with real problems or conflicts, he habitually adopts an aggressive identity, suppressing his own needs to protect a vulnerable self. This leads to the emergence of anxiety and depression, ultimately impacting daily life and interpersonal communication. The counselor primarily employs intersubjective psychoanalysis to address the psychological needs of the visitor from a “analytic third” perspective. Drawing on a foundation of active listening, empathy, and support established during the counseling process, the counselor focuses on the interaction between both parties and attends to the visitor's physical responses and emotional fluctuations. The counselor guides the visitor towards self-awareness and consolidation of inner strength, encouraging him to listen to his own inner voice. Ultimately, this approach aims to alleviate anxiety and depression while fostering personal growth.
• DOI: https://doi.org/10.35534/tppc.0607047
• Cite: 于巧芳．攻击性认同是一种保护？——以分析第三方视角探寻来访者自我成长的个案报告［J］．心理咨询理论与实践，2024，6（7）：379-386.