The client came to counseling because of his long-period depression and the sense of loneliness which could not be relieved. The core problem is that early attachment is damaged,it is difficult to establish a stable relationship with others,and the self has not been well developed. The counselor established a safe and stable relationship with client through listening,empathy and mirroring. We clarified and explained deep unconscious emotions by identifying persona and shadow through working with client's dreams,faced and repaired the feeling of fear of alienation and abomination of loneliness and inner parts of feeling unloved by recognizing interpersonal patterns. Through unconscious expression the client gradually integrated the internal strength,enhanced self-awareness and improved his interpersonal relations.