The emotional and behavioral issues of low grades seem to be a common phenomenon in children’s growth, but behind them, the surging beasts are hidden: I want to be popular in the class VS, they are deliberately. A second -year student often conflict with his classmates, which is not welcomed in the class, and aggravated the appearance of his bad behavior. In the end, it is easy to fall into the vortex of anger and destroy the establishment and maintenance of his companion relationship. Psychological teachers help students clarify their real needs through the methods of painting, role -playing, cognitive adjustment and family homework, behavioral training and family homework through Fangshu people, and the combination of behavior training and family homework: I want to be popular in the class. As a result, the impetus to change and further change their unreasonable beliefs, intervene and correct the bad behaviors of this student, and help students achieve the goal of returning to normal companions and collective learning life.