In order to explore the junior high school students and family education methods and parent-child conflict, we to 705 junior high school students parents education, psychological adaptability test and parent-child conflict test. This study draws the following conclusions through the investigation: (1) for junior high school students, the non-only child is more healthy than the only child, with less parent-child conflict, and the level of parent-child conflict in the second grade is the highest.(2) The autocratic, doting and neglected parent education models show the negative effects on psychological resilience and show a positive association with parent-child conflict; on the contrary, encouragement and emotional warmth show the improvement effect on psychological resilience, but also the reverse relationship with parent-child conflict; in addition, there is an obvious negative correlation between psychological elasticity and parent-child conflict.(3) It is found that the family parenting style of junior high school students can effectively predict their psychological resilience and the degree of parent-child conflict, and its intermediary effect is mainly determined by the positive parenting style of parents.