This article is a consultation case report, which focus on client’s emotional problems caused
by work and family pressure. And adds a special perspective on how novice consultants can alleviate
their own imperfect consulting anxiety and how does perfection anxiety affect the development and
advancement of consulting work. Based on the self psychology theory, the work is carried out with the
ultimate goal of improve the client’s self, and the techniques of listening, empathy, and proper mirroring
are used to relieve client’s anxiety and stress. At the same time, this consultant use one-to-one supervision,
peer supervision, self-supervision, and focusing on freeing space and self-presence techniques to
alleviate her own consultation imperfection anxiety, so as to reduce the impact of the novice consultant’s
consultation imperfection anxiety on the consultation.