In the early years of the client’s upbringing, she often felt that her needs were denied and ignored, forming a fragile self-esteem, showing unrealistic exaggeration and narcissism.This brings a negative impact to her emotion, intimate relationship, study and work of the parties concerned.When the self-esteem is threatened, she feels breaks down and has the behavior of self-injurious.The counselor uses the theory of people-centered therapy to help the client explore deeply and accept herself through the three enabling conditions of empathy, sincerity and Congruence, and unconditional positive regard. After 16 times of consultation, the emotion regulation and intimate relationship of the client have been greatly improved. No self-injurious behavior.