Love control desire is a kind of universal psychological phenomenon, which is expressed asabsolute domination of love activities and absolute possession of partners to a certain extent in love.Excessive love control desire is not only detrimental to the healthy development of love, but also affectsphysical and mental health. The purpose of this study is to study the factors behind college students’ lovecontrol desire and to find out feasible ways to regulate love control desire so as to help college studentsdevelop a correct view of love and reasonably regulate love control desire. This study applied literaturemethod, questionnaire survey method and SPSS data analysis method. Questionnaires were sent tostudents from Qufu Normal University and Zibo Vocational College through Wenjuanxing, and 108 validdata were analyzed by SPSS. The results showed that some college students’ love control desire was toostrong, and love experience, parents and family and other factors had a significant impact on the lovecontrol desire of college students.