In educational activities, as the subject of interactive relations, students and teachers, parents or
grandparents will respectively form the relationship of educating and nurturing. In the face of different
interaction objects, students’ attributional patterns may be different. In this study, the situational story
method was used to simulate the interactive education situation between students and teachers, parents
and grandparents, and then subjects were asked to write down the reasons for the behavior of teachers,
parents or grandparents in the situation. The researchers coded the reasons for the behavior written by
the participants, and counted them as internal attributions if they thought it was due to the students,
and as external attributions if they thought it was due to the teachers, parents, or grandparents. After
analyzing the coding results, it was found that the subjects had significant external attribution bias in the
interactive education activities with their parents or grandparents, and significant internal attribution
bias in the interactive education activities with their teachers. The results show that the educating and
nurturing relationship types have a significant impact on students’ attribution patterns, and the difference
in attribution patterns may be an important way for school education activities to make individuals
internalize social norms. In the family education activities, it is necessary to guide the deviation of
students’ external attribution to the direction of positive external attribution, so as to create a good family
education atmosphere and promote the growth of individuals.