Empathy is not only an important concept in psychological counseling and treatment, but also
a communication skill that college counselors must master. Starting from the classic exposition of the
connotation of empathy by humanistic psychologist Carl R.Rogers, this paper puts forward the methods
and steps of College Counselors’ empathy ability, so as to help college counselors further enhance the
communication efficiency between teachers and students, harmonize the relationship between teachers
and students, and improve the work effectiveness.