Object: This study explores the relevance of female perfectionism, attachment style and intimate
partner violence, and explores the impact of their early upbringing. Methods: In this study, we used the
Zi’s Negative Perfectionism Questionnaire(ZNPQ), Experiences in Close Relationships Inventory(ECR),
Conflict tactics scales2(CTS2) and the supplementary questions as the questionnaire, and collected
892 female samples in the network. Results: There is a positive correlation between perfectionism and
attachment style. Perfectionism and insecure attachment styles have increased the possibility of violent
abuse / violence in intimate relationships, and have a significant impact on the development of the
relationship in different directions. The relationship between perfectionism, insecure attachment and
intimate partner violence may have a common basis for early upbringing.