This topic aims to create an “acceptance” and “integration” educational environment, hoping to provide personalized support for autistic children, so as to help them better adapt to kindergarten life. By analyzing the psychological and behavioral characteristics of autistic children, and summarizing the needs of autistic children, this paper makes a personalized manual according to the needs of autistic children in the kindergarten, and creates an acceptance environment for a kindergarten according to their needs. The aim is to promote this “acceptance”, so that more ordinary kindergartens can use it, and finally solve the problem of “kindergarten difficulties” for autistic children.