To solve the problem of size matching to diaphragm ring piezoelectric vibrator, we analyzed the diaphragm ring piezoelectric vibrator by Rayleigh energy method and elastic mechanics this way. We supposed the variable is the diameter ratio and thickness ratio of piezoelectric ceramic plate and metal substrate. Then analyzed the relationship between the structural of size matching and the performance of piezoelectric vibrator, and optimized the structure of piezoelectric vibrator. The result shows that there is the better overall performance. That is for the piezoelectric vibrator, there is the larger output power, the large output force, the large displacement and higher effective electromechanical coupling coefficient. When the diameter ratio is between 0.5 and 0.8 and the thickness ratio is between 0.6 and 0.8. Selected the diameter ratio of 0.65 and the thickness ratio of 0.71 to experimental testing. The maximum displacement is 23 microns of the central resonance point are proved by theory analysis. The performance is good and the size matching of this structure is match the range of theoretical analysis. The theoretical approach mentioned in this paper provides theoretical basis and technical reference for the design and application of diaphragm ring piezoelectric vibrator.